I am a mom. I had been a Stay At Home Mom for 3 years and 9 months, before I started back to work. I have never understood the reason behind the "Mommy Wars". Mothers, struggling to raise normal, well-balanced, contributing members of society, bad-mouthing, judging, whispering... Basically, behaving in a way that directly contradicts what we are trying to instill in these tiny humans we are trying to raise. Why?!